People who sleep together regularly are bound to fall in love. Is this really true, or is it just a long-discarded cliché? We want to explore this question in this article – and also clarify the question of whether women really fall in love faster than men.
Women vs. men: Who can separate love and closeness better?
Men only want one thing. Women are looking for the big love. This view persists in our society and is one of the reasons why it is assumed that women cannot separate love and sex.
However, this view is no longer up-to-date. Since the female sex is no longer financially dependent on men and divorce is socially accepted, it is just as easy for women to separate pure physicality and true love.
In short, today’s self-confident woman likes to indulge in a sensual fling with a man who doesn’t automatically have to be her partner. Physical closeness and real feelings can therefore be separated. Both from the male and female sex.
Too many feelings cause unwillingness
Certainly, sex with feelings is a very different thing than intimacy without love. Nevertheless, you can’t compare the two. Both sides have their advantages. For example, the excitement of making love to a single person who is more or less a stranger can be particularly great and provide more passion and tingling. Erotic moments with a loving person, on the other hand, are intense on an emotional basis – and give you the freedom to try out new things that you would never have tried with a stranger.
Is it still worth separating sex and love? Indeed! Because sleeping only with your steady partner over and over again can become a routine and in the worst case lead to boredom in bed. In this case, one-night stands or a longer-lasting affair can be the solution.
Lull in bed? Affair as a solution!
Whether you are in a long-term relationship or even a marriage – as soon as the passion in bed wanes, you should look for a solution together. Two possible solutions: One is to agree on an open relationship or marriage. Or you can enter into a secret romance.
Either way, the fastest and easiest way to find suitable partners for such erotic adventures is on the internet. Singles exchanges and casual dating communities like TALEJA are a reputable place to go to find the right person for sensual lovemaking discreetly and seriously. Here, both know from the beginning what they are getting into and can easily separate love and intimacy.
