Every second woman is said to have experience with squirting. Hard to believe – but it seems to happen wetter in the beds of lovers than one might think. Whether singles or couples, on a date with an ONS or during long-rehearsed lovemaking: squirting has become part of the daily routine for many in bed. And that’s a good thing. Because it is just as normal as any ejaculation.
What is squirting exactly?
Squirting is nothing other than vaginal ejaculation. In other words, just as a man climaxes and ejaculates, so do women who squirt. Nevertheless, there are many single ladies out there who regularly climax without squirting. Why is that?
Although there are many manuals on the subject and some men have experience with it, it does not ‘work’ for every woman.
Let’s get to the theory: when you squirt, fluid is secreted – mostly during the female climax. But: If you have an orgasm, you don’t necessarily have to squirt. And if you squirt, you don’t necessarily have an orgasm. Both can happen completely independently of each other. But they usually go hand in hand.
The origin of the squirting experience is the paraurethral gland. When a woman is strongly aroused, this gland secretes fluid. Since this gland is located behind the vaginal entrance and every woman’s anatomy is different, there is no secret recipe for squirting. Nevertheless, there are ways to provoke squirting. Namely, by stimulating the vaginal wall. This is best done with one or more fingers that are pushed into the vagina and move gently ‘upwards’.
Behind the vaginal wall there is tissue that surrounds the paraurethral gland. If this fills with fluid – and the experienced date partner notices this when he penetrates the woman with his fingers – the conditions are excellent. But for the fluid to be released, there must be absolute trust between the two lovers. Only when the single lady is absolutely relaxed can she let herself go and ‘just let go’. Because as is so often the case with sex, female ejaculation is a matter of the head.
Dating and squirting – does that go together?
Singles who date regularly and experience one or two erotic climaxes often shy away from experimenting together in bed. The distance to the stranger is too great. Something like a female climax with cum is difficult.
But: It’s all a question of the dating community. In the meantime, there are a number of online meeting places where singles who are open-minded and willing to experiment cavort. Those who meet here can clarify at an early stage whether there are common preferences – and whether both have the desire to get on the track of squirting. There are certainly some sensitive single men who enjoy a date with a steamy ending. And also, many single women who would simply like to experience it. So, take the plunge! Maybe you’ll find the right match for your project in the singles community TALEJA.
