My friends always say, ‘If you’re single, you just need a dating app on your phone.’ I feel like you don’t even have to use it. The app is simply part of it – after all, that’s the way it should be if you are single.
Despite everything, I’m not a fan of it or a member of any single community. That’s just not my thing. I hate the superficial ratings, swiping through profiles and ultimately hundreds of matches that don’t turn into a real date anyway.
But what I’m actually a fan of: just hanging out in a bar and getting involved in a conversation. And then see where the night (and the drinks) takes us.
Last weekend, when I was home alone, I was like, ‘Fuck it. You’re going out tonight!’ And at that moment I felt a little unsure. I didn’t want to go out alone, so I looked online for a date partner. And because this time I didn’t feel like superficiality and fake profiles, I decided to try out a completely new dating site for Stuttgart: TALEJA.
Hard to believe, but after a few minutes on the dating platform, I had found someone who would spontaneously take a few drinks with me in the city. I quickly freshened up, jumped into the little black dress and was ready to rumble.
Exchanging erotic fantasies – and then?
We met in my favorite bar in the heart of Stuttgart. He was waiting for me right at the counter, just like we had agreed. We wanted to pretend we were two strangers who only met in the bar. Simply because that corresponds most closely to our ideal of a first meeting.
Our idea went well. We started flirting right away and didn’t feel weird for a second. Rather, I had the feeling that I could just open up to him and being able to be myself.
We took some drinks. I always chose my favorite drink, the Pornstar Martini. The name makes everyone smile. But this cocktail just tastes too good.
The name of the drink was also a good conversation starter to get a little more intimate. We explained our preferences to each other, and I breathed into his ear that I like to be dominated and that a little choking is allowed.
He seemed to like that. We decided to empty our drinks and make our way to his apartment. On the way we walked through a park and already were all over each other. We kissed, became close, and I could feel his hand sliding under my dress to run down my waist.
When we got to his place, we were super horny. We headed straight for the bed, undressed each other, kissed, and stroked each other. He took my head and clearly showed me that he would like to be spoiled accordingly by me. I liked that and gave him what he wanted. He returned the favor accordingly and I couldn’t complain.
The next morning, we woke up snuggled together in his bed. We enjoyed being close to each other – and we still do today. Not as a permanent couple, but as a friendship plus. Proximity without obligations is exactly what we want right now. And thanks to TALEJA we found exactly that.
