Sometimes when you’re making love, your mind isn’t on the game. This doesn’t mean that it’s no fun and that you switch off. Rather, it means that you imagine a certain situation during the lovemaking. Something that really gets you going. And enjoy these thoughts until the climax. After all, lust is created in the mind.
Both men and women do that. Very good – then what fuels it is allowed. And since no one can look into the other person’s head, you are also quite private with your thoughts.
But what would happen if we lived out our fantasies openly? Just come out of our shells completely during an erotic date. Or even explore boundaries during a one-night stand. After all, the singles of the 21st century are more open-minded than ever. And you can take advantage of that when dating.
Living out fantasies – how? Role-playing is a really exciting method. When done right, they are true catalysts for your lust.
How does erotic role play work?
Imagine: There’s this single guy you’ve been seeing for a while. Things are going great in bed, but you could spice things up a bit. After all, you want to get to know each other better. Or maybe you’re on a date, it comes to an end, but again it’s just missionary and that’s it? It doesn’t have to be!
The solution is role-playing.
The rules of the game are simple: you need at least two participants – you and your date. You decide on two fictitious roles and determine the character traits you will adopt in the game. And off you go.
Tips for role-playing beginners
As is so often the case in bed, role-playing is no exception: Anything can happen. Nothing has to. But there is a great tip for beginners: stay yourself for now, but emphasise certain character traits of yours.
If you are more submissive in bed, show yourself as such and accept your date as the dominant part. Or the other way round. By the way, the division into a dominant and a submissive role is the most classic role distribution in role play. Of course, you can also change roles from time to time in order to discover yourself anew.
The next level would be made-up characters that you and your single date play. Many people find it easier to act out certain preferences in an unfamiliar role. Costumes can help you stay in character. Tip: When choosing roles, look for a top and buttom side. In other words, a dominant and a submissive part. Example: teacher and schoolgirl. Or nurse and patient.
Explore boundaries. Experience more.
Through the fictional reality, many dare to come out of their shells more. What is usually associated with shame in bed is desired in role play. Nice! finally a possibility to live out one’s sexual fantasies uninhibitedly.
So how about a role play where you break all taboos and live out your fantasies. Maybe your chosen single will kidnap you on the way home and ‘force’ you to have sex. The thrill of the forbidden can be so hot.
But never forget: rules also apply in role-playing. The boundaries of you and your partner are always valid. To be on the safe side, discuss your no-go’s before you start playing together and take them into account. Mutual respect must always be there!
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