My life on Sylt is a dream come true. Yes, I am an island child. Born and raised here. And I am grateful for it. I got used to the super busy summer months and the sea-quiet weeks in February as a child. As well as to the fresh breeze and the high waves when swimming in the North Sea.
But what I will never get used to: Being single. I hate being alone. Sure, I have friends and family. And of course, I do Westerland with my girls on the weekends. But I lack tenderness, intimacy and passion.
I don’t want a firm commitment! Sounds perhaps strange for many. On the one hand I’m sad as a single. On the other hand not ready for a relationship. But that’s the way it is. I am not made to have only one person in my love life.
After I was able to arrange some more or less nice dates through my dating app, it became disappointing. The island isn’t very big, after all. And so many singles just do not run around on Sylt. So, I thought: Try a new single exchange. And that’s how I ended up at TALEJA.
The concept of the dating community convinced me.
The dating community convinced me. At the beginning I was a bit confused – I only knew my dating app. But quickly I understood the concept.
There is a normal chat function. Through it, men or women can chat directly with their favorites. You can also match with other TALEJA members. I already knew all this from other dating portals.
What was new for me: The date requests. Here, singles describe what they imagine for a date.
And there – in the date requests – I found what I was looking for.
Tom, 27, was looking for a date with a woman who would spend a relaxed evening with him over cocktails and the like. And that at bar Sansibar.
For me, unfortunately, a little too expensive. But Tom wanted to invite his date according to date description – and that with pleasure. So I took the initiative and started the chat.
Our conversation just flowed. One question chased the next. We gave each other serious compliments. And we really started flirting.
Just a few hours later, the chat turned into a real flirt. We sat together in the cult restaurant and treated ourselves to one drink after the next. So the mood quickly became humid and cheerful. And it wasn’t long before we shared our first kiss.
Here, too, I took the initiative. I leaned over to Tom and looked at his lips. He interpreted my signal correctly – and kissed me. So passionately, as I have rarely experienced. The kiss became hotter and hotter. When I could barely hold on, I whispered in his ear, “We should get going.”
Intimacy on the beach – the madness
The sun had already set. The evening was tepid. We walked along the beach for less than five minutes. Already we were lying in the sand and kissing again.
And then it came over us. Without thinking further, I unbuttoned his shirt. And also, his pants. He knew immediately what I wanted, pushed up my skirt, pulled down my panties….
You can guess the rest. In any case, it was super hot. And actually, my first time on the beach. An experience that every single person should do once.
In short: I had the perfect date on Sylt. And I’m sure that I will experience a few more such meetings on the island with TALEJA.
